July ACC Recap!

This month at ACC, we dove deep into the difference between pain and identity 💥 — and how we choose what stays and what heals.

🔹 Victimization vs Victimhood

We explored how being hurt, mistreated, or wronged (victimization) is a real experience, yet when we stay stuck in that identity (victimhood), it can hold us back from healing, growth, and personal power.

🔹 Victimhood Mindset vs Acceptance Mindset

We learned that the victimhood mindset says, “This happened to me, and I have no power.” While the acceptance mindset says, “This happened, and I get to choose how I move forward.”One leads to looping, the other to freedom 🕊️.

🔹 The Impact of Victimhood

This mindset can sneak in as blame, resentment, helplessness, or even people-pleasing. Over time, it can affect your relationships, your confidence, and how you show up in your purpose. We don’t bypass pain here—we meet it with love and accountability. 💛

🔹 How to Recognize Victimhood

We practiced noticing where we give our power away—like replaying past stories, staying in cycles of “why me,” or waiting for someone else to change. Awareness is step one. Ownership is the gateway to transformation. 👏

If these topics resonate and you’re ready to reclaim your power, join us inside ACC!📩 info@ashleycoffeycoaching.com | 📞 719-286-9290

#HealingWork #ACC #PowerNotPity #EmotionalLeadership #ChooseYou

ACC Announcements!

HEY LADY BOSSES

LADIES TEAM INFORMATIONAL:

- Saturday, August 23, 2025 12:00p - 2:00p

REGISTER HERE: https://latishahardy.short.gy/JqhZU8 

WHO WE ARE LOOKING FOR

We are looking for dedicated teammates who are looking to improve their dancing through performance training!

WHAT WE DO

This team is a fusion dance team with the strongest roots in Mambo, Afro-Cuban, Pachanga, and Son. We utilize all techniques to design and create art and to cross-train the body. This allows us to stay injury-free and unique in style. We dance these techniques to ALL types of music.

WHO WE ARE  

The Lady Bosses are an all-inclusive, diverse, strong group of women of all ages and backgrounds, training hard to be well-rounded humans and dancers.

Since beginning our training in 2017, we strive as a team to improve our dancing and make an impact in our community to spread love and strength. The team is split into three teams; therefore, all levels are welcome.